Kisses are better fate than wisdom.

E.E.CUMMINGS

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Reflecting on 2013

2013 was a great year. it had a great and fast promising start and ended with a steady & calm night.  I know this a bit late as i should have written this perhaps 30 days ago, but guess what? I was busy living my life starting 2014 the way I saw it fit.  2013 was a year of growth.

Relationships

My relationships with various members of my social circles were deeply reviewed this year.  

I lost a dear friend whom I considered to be my sister.  I honestly have no idea where it went wrong, but things are for the best.  No sour notes on my end as I see us just growing apart each and every day.

I renewed 3 friendships that I had thought were at their stale state and were close to death.  I was really glad that my friendships with Alex, Selene, and Kim got back on solid ground.  I had thought that my bridges with them were shaky, but when things got tough, these 3 are always there with open arms, no judgements and ill wills.  I don’t have to check with their schedules to have a good conversation. I can just simply write them an email.  We’re all adults now & we can’t always drop everything for coffee and a long talk.  

I solidified my relationships with my family also. For the 1st time in a long time, I actually had a great time during xmas eve with my family. There were great foods, lots of laughing, and obviously singing.  I didn’t even really care about the presents this year.

Dating

Its been more than a year since I’ve been seeing the runner and it didn’t dawn on me that I was in such denial of my feelings towards him until his marathon.  It was the worst ever.  I wish it happened on a different day, but it didn’t.  As much as my friends tease me about how much I like him, I never really acknowledged my emotions until that day.  Days/weeks before the big day, I was frantically searching for a sweatshirt/hoodie so i can keep warm during the race.  The hoodie became really important for some reason. Kim pointed out “he must be really special to [me] if you’re going all this trouble for a sweatshirt” and i shrugged it off.  I hate to admit it, but yes he is really specially to me.  He is dedicated to his work and his hobby and his mom.  I love that.  

Travel 

There aren’t much of traveling done during 2013 as I was too busy with other things in my life.  I have discovered more parts of California and mostly San Francisco as the year have gone on.